From time to time, life can be pretty hard. This christmas will not be any thing like we exptected it to be. But we know that both our two boys are safe and with Jesus in heaven - a far better place than this world. And later on we will meet both of them there. This is a comfort to us in these really hard, hard days.
Since we have 3 other children kickin' and alive, we have to go on with the daily routines, and make a christmas as good as possible for the family. That is a help to move on as well.
Do not take life for granted. Be happy for all the days your are able to live on. Make use of the days, they may be fewer than you think. And be good to other people as both them and you are struggle through the days. And remember, there is hope! Jesus was born on christmas day, and can still help you out, giving hope and a future - not only for your life here on earth, but for an eternal life together with him in heaven.
Merry Christmas!